Potty Training Regression at Daycare or Preschool
Calm support when accidents return after a transition
If your child was potty trained—and suddenly they’re having accidents at daycare or preschool—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common reasons families reach out.
Potty training regression can feel confusing and frustrating, especially when everything was working. Many parents wonder what they did wrong—or worry they need to start over.
Most of the time, that’s not true.
Regression doesn’t mean potty training failed
It usually means something changed
Potty training regressions often show up during transitions, including:
Starting daycare or preschool
Changing classrooms or caregivers
New schedules or longer days
Increased stimulation or expectations
Even children who were confidently potty trained can lose consistency when their environment shifts.
This isn’t backsliding.
It’s a nervous system response.
Why daycare and school trigger accidents
Even in “trained” kids
New environments ask a lot of children:
Different bathrooms
Different routines
Less individualized support
More noise, stimulation, and social pressure
For many kids, this stress shows up as:
Accidents they don’t seem to notice
Waiting too long to go
Difficulty speaking up
Less body awareness during busy days
Accidents don’t mean your child forgot how to use the toilet.
They often mean their body is working harder to keep up.
What helps potty training regressions resolve
Small changes—not a full reset
The goal with regression is stability, not restarting potty training from the beginning.
Progress usually returns when:
Routines are clarified and reinforced
Expectations are adjusted to fit the environment
Adults respond calmly and consistently
Transitions are supported more intentionally
With the right tweaks, many children regain consistency faster than parents expect.
How I support families through potty training regression
Pattern-spotting and practical adjustments
I help families navigate potty training regression by:
Identifying patterns parents often miss
Understanding how school routines affect body awareness
Adjusting expectations without lowering them
Supporting communication between home and school
Helping adults respond in ways that reduce pressure
Often, it’s not about doing more—it’s about doing things a little differently.
Why guided support makes a difference
Especially during transitions
Potty training regressions can feel personal, but they’re rarely about effort or consistency.
Having support allows us to:
Make sense of what’s actually happening
Respond without frustration or panic
Prevent small issues from becoming entrenched
Restore confidence—for both the child and the adults
This is especially helpful when daycare or preschool is involved.
❊ Testimonials
Reflections from families.
Many families say the biggest shift wasn’t just their child’s progress, but their own confidence in knowing how to respond, adjust, and keep going.
“Cara is truly a life saver. She was not only able to potty train our non verbal autistic kid but was also able to make him independent which was such an important goal for us. She truly treated my son as her own family. My wife has spent countless hours in trying to potty train our son but because he is non verbal autistic we just lost hope but Cara literally potty trained him in just few days.
For anyone who is reading these reviews and considering Cara. I would say just go for it you won’t regret.”
— Assad U., Parent
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“The remote coaching was an incredible help, not only with potty training but with communication as well. Our 2 year old was going through a potty training regression, and after working with Cara we're back on the right track, with great ways to make the potty a positive experience and how speak to our daughter in a way that makes sense and connects with her on her level.”
— Logan W., Parent
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“Cara came to my house and literally saved me. My daughter is autistic and was 4 at the time. I tried every single method possible on my own. After 6 months of failing I decided to look into getting professional help. She was so calm and patient. The whole thing took 3 days. I would NEVER have been able to do it on my own. And I kept having visions of my daughter a teenager and still in diapers. I’m beyond grateful for Cara and the days she spent with me and my family. She is AMAZING.”
— Elizabeth N., Parent
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Start with a guided inquiry
So we can stabilize things and move forward
Accidents don’t erase progress
They’re a signal—not a setback
If you’re dealing with potty training regression at daycare or preschool, relief usually comes from understanding—not restarting.
Every regression has context. The guided inquiry helps me understand:
When the accidents started
What changed in your child’s environment
How routines differ between home and school
What adjustments will be most helpful right now
From there, I’ll guide you toward the right next step—often targeted support rather than a full reset.
